Looking at german tv right now and there are two different opinions discussed and they are soooo convinced each of them is right its so stupid.
Both have right points but thsoe who think only them si right are allready wrong only because they are convinced theya re right.
The first say children have to tay with their Mother the first three years of their life otherwise they will have huge problems(psychological ones ) Now the otehrs think if they stay with their mum(and not their dad!)and come a year later to school or daycarecenter they have one year developpmnt retard.
If some not sure of him or herself listen to that they wont get any help what is better.I think both has good sides and in my opinion the mixed solution is best: half time with a prents and half time with a group of children their age and someone of confidence who keeps them.
